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昨晚和Yu聊了很久,收获良多,发现自己和很多人相比,尤其是grapeotrex相比,缺少对生活的规划。

今天下午和Chen同学聊天,也收获很多,也更意识到这个问题。的确,我也不小了,我该好好想想我想要的生活,好好规划自己的人生了。以前,我总是随遇而安,高考时,估了下分,知道top2没戏,就随便从学校列表按历年的录取分找学校,于是,看到科大的分数貌似还不错,并且看起来名字也挺唬人,我甚至没有仔细了解这所学校,更没想我想从这所大学收获什么,就浑浑噩噩来了科大。不过,这次选择我还挺满意,在科大,虽然没有我之前以为那么好的学风(其实,在科大,说实话,我从来没有认真上过课,都是靠突击),但是牛人却还是不缺,和牛人交流,能让自己变得更牛些,每天都能学到新的知识,那感觉很好。

大三了,我随大流来了计算所做大研,保研时,看到大家最想来的是计算所,而我也能来,于是毫不犹豫的来了,没想很多,其中有个有可能保研到MSRA的机会,也没去尝试,毕竟我这边几乎定下来了。刚来计算所,很多事物都是新鲜的,有种经验蹭蹭往上涨的感觉,还不错。可是,到了现在,这种感觉没了,有时有种感觉,自己做的事没什么用,基本上是在重复别人的工作,可是,我认了,继续做下去,没想那么多,但是,很显然的,不可能做的很好。当然,中间也会有一些困惑,但没怎么想,更没什么行动。

可是,在和同学的聊天中,我意识到,这也许会有问题,得好好想想,我想要的生活是什么,得好好规划,我的人生之路该怎么走。虽然,计划不如变化,但没有计划,何来变化。我改好好想想以下问题:

  1. 我的长期目标是什么,我希望我这辈子干些什么事,留下些什么?
  2. 当我老了时,我回望人生时,有哪些经历,可以回忆?
  3. 30年后,我希望我在做什么,过怎么样的生活?
  4. 20年后,我希望我在做什么,过怎么样的生活?
  5. 10年后,我希望我在做什么,回望以前,我会不会后悔,会不会想改变?
  6. 5年后,我希望我在做什么,能选择什么样的生活,和现在比有什么改变?
  7. 我的短期目标是什么,这短期目标和我长期目标有关吗,会矛盾吗?
  8. 现在我干的事,哪些是在为了短期目标,哪些是为了长期目标,哪些是在打酱油?

也许,想清楚以上问题很难,但是,当我想清楚了以后,我的人生规划也就算是出来了(我会写到某个记事本,并且默默记在心里)。不过,我还需要对自己说的是,赢在执行而不是计划



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  1. 2011年8月29日15:22 | #1

    我好像前两天也刚跟她聊过天来着……

    @g@grapeot

    确实,合作的这些天里我深刻体会到这点,真的是比一个人进步快多了。正确的信息充足了很多,方向就更稳定,决定也更快速和正确,这就是团队的重要性。话说在社会中就不能这样乱捞信息,因为社会里信任关系还是比较杂的。

  2. 2011年8月30日01:34 | #2

    @grapeot

    有八卦??!!

    是fb上面的吗?

  3. 2011年9月4日16:17 | #3

    很多人都是走一步是一步

    没有规划

    想有的放矢

    想在以后能得心应手

    如鱼得水

    是得规划

    因为我们不想走很多人走的路

  4. 2011年8月28日05:39 | #4

    @Rex

    我也是一个自由惯了的人,但和你不同的是,我经常是走一步算一步

    有时即使想过要怎么怎么样,也不一定去执行,去改变

    我觉得我除了没规划以外,还就是缺少执行力

    很赞同你后面的观点~

  5. 2011年8月29日15:04 | #5

    羡慕有女生聊天的。。。

    @Rex

    赞同信息通畅非常重要。很多时候自己的境界受同伴影响非常大。

  6. 2011年9月8日08:40 | #6

    很好奇你是哪个学校的。。。

  7. 2011年9月8日10:20 | #7

    @baby

    中国科大,为什么好奇这个?

  8. 2011年9月8日10:28 | #8

    @sigma

    因为正在为各种课程报告纠结。。先前搜到的是体系结构那个ISCA整理的那篇 顺带就看了这个然后就顺带问了下 O(∩_∩)O~

  9. 2011年8月27日23:37 | #9

    我计划性不怎么样的,呵呵。根据MBTI性格分类,我是属于那种比较自由的类型,不是按部就班坚持规划的人。不过对于未来生活,我还是保持着一些主线。大家都不是贪心的人,但是至少有一个未来生活状态的最低目标,为了这个最低目标总是有些事情是需要去做的。

    我很赞成“赢在执行而不是规划”中所体现执行力的重要性。但是同时我也一直告诉自己,如果方向错误那么就意味着浪费时间——比如在蓝鹰的那几年,我确实觉得有收获,但是真不应该待那么久。回想起蓝鹰各队队员去向,其实很多都挺让人惋惜的。

    但是我自己现在的想法是:先做打算,然后确定方向,之后去执行,最后保持信息通畅做到及时调整。失败不可怕,怕的是不吸取教训;相信团队,相信自己,成功总会来的。

  10. 2011年8月29日15:40 | #10

    @Rex

    靠,就我只能在家DotA。。。

    (话说想起来你好像知道一些羞羞的东西。。。不说鸟。。。)

  11. 2011年8月30日00:34 | #11

    加油啊,我觉得你是那种大方向上没有规划,但是只要是手头的事情就一定踏踏实实做好的人,只要你想你就一定能做到(仅限于技术层面),所以如果你能有更多些"野心",一定是前途无量的哈。

  12. 2011年8月30日01:35 | #12

    @Rex

    合作愉快哈~

    话说周围的人牛叉,感觉自己也牛叉了,感觉

  13. 2011年8月30日01:33 | #13

    @pigritia

    其实我不够踏实,什么都想了解了解,什么都想玩的那种,但要一直focus一件事还是比较难…

    嗯,话说,你那天说的话还是挺有道理的,我之前很多事真的没有怎么去想~~~

  14. 2011年9月1日16:40 | #14

    @pigritia

    所以你不觉得道福和我是绝配么。。。

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